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Don’t challenge me, Erikjan!
I consider myself outspoken and not afraid to voice my opinion when I disagree.
It’s who I am.
It’s how I was raised, and it’s part of the Dutch culture.
We’re direct, curious, and want to know why we’re doing something.
“Because I tell you so” doesn’t do very well with most Dutch people.
Yes, I’m stereotyping here, but I find that there’s a truth to it.
Like with most characteristics, too much of it becomes counterproductive. We’re also considered stubborn, hard to work with, and flat-out arrogant sometimes.
These are parts of the Dutch culture I only came to see once I started living abroad.
It doesn’t always serve you well to voice your opinion and pretend you know everything immediately.
A little bit of humility goes a long way. I’ve learned so much while living and working in other cultures.
So, I’ve learned to hold back when needed.
I’ve learned to analyze specific situations better and keep my mouth shut.
I’ve learned to pick my battles and not try to win every battle.
I’ve learned that the boss sometimes is the boss and has earned the right to make the call.
